Love and Grief
9 min readFeb 13, 2020
The hospital social worker looked my husband and I in the eyes. Our bloodshot, tired, wet eyes.
“You had no control over his death. But you do have control over what else will die with it. Don’t let that be your marriage if you don’t want it to be.”
This was our final session together. We were preparing to be discharged from the hospital after the birth and death of our three day old son. I had clothes on for…